When is it the right time?

This question I don't have an answer for. Specifically speaking, when is it the right time to tell someone about Christ?

The obvious answer would be immediately, but I don't think it is as simple as that. I feel as though each opportunity has its own timing, but how do you know when that is?

My husband and I have gotten to know a lady and her boyfriend over the past few months. Only seeing them occasionally, but we have invited them to our home twice. I still haven't said anything about what Christ has done for them, and that this gift is available for them. They do know that we are believers, at least I would hope so given our prayer times before meals, and that I am a Sunday School teacher. But is what we are doing enough?

To be hard on myself, I don't think that it is. I want to say something, but I also don't want them to think that I view them as a "project." Just another one of my to-dos on my list as a Christian. I want them to know that they are special to me, as my friends, and that I would regret it the rest of my life if I didn't share with them the One who makes my life worth while, the One I live for.

So is it as simple as that? Just putting my feelings out there, prepared for judgment, awkward silences and infamous line "I already know all about that." I wish that it was as easy as it looks on paper. I know it is a delicate balance between showing love and sharing the hope I have in Christ and having my audience accept it or coming across as holier than thou and having them reject it, and worse keep that opinion despite other Christian's efforts because I failed so miserably.

Have any of you gone through this predicament? If you are on the other side, did you share/not share, and what was their response? Any suggestions to make this end positively?